Hi Friend!
I hope this post finds you soaking up the last bit of blissful moments this summer has to offer. I have so many wonderful things I can’t wait to share with you that happened this summer. But before I jump back into sharing home and decor content, I wanted to give you an update on life and the reason for my extended absence, as many of you have reached out to check in on me.
For the last few years, I have intentionally chosen to slow down my content sharing during the summer months to be more present with my kids. However this year, my summer slow-down got a bit of an earlier than normal start after my dad found out that he was battling pancreatic and liver cancer. The sudden news of his diagnosis had me on a plane, as I would spend the next month with him in Florida to help care for him as we made preparations to bring him back home to New Hampshire to be with his family for what would be his final weeks.
When we first found out, I wrestled with sharing his news, but as the days dragged on and felt like months, the answers and clarity my sisters and our families were longing for were minimal at best. I am so thankful that I was able to step away and be fully present in a time when my dad needed me most. I’m sure someday I will share his story, and all the little miracles we experienced in those harrowing weeks.
Eight weeks after my dad found out he had cancer, he went home to be with Jesus, where he is no longer suffering.
You all have been on my heart the last few months as I’ve taken time to process and grieve the loss of my dad. I am so thankful for this community of women who feel more like good friends, rather than acquaintances. Some of you have been with me from the beginning, celebrating the wins and sharing in the struggles, whether it be with trying to decorate our homes or the curveballs that come with life.
I want to thank those of you who have reached out to check in on me, and those of you who have chosen to patiently wait in my absence, not knowing for sure what was going on, but are still here.
If you had told me at the beginning of the year what this year would look like in just a few short months, I would not have believed you. But I am so thankful for the still small voice of God and which told me to make room in my schedule, because he knew what was coming and the storm our family was about to walk through.
I have so many exciting things to share with you about what we have been doing this summer. To the house, to the gardens. I also had started a few smaller projects at the beginning of the year as well, that I never had a chance to share either. Along with fully celebrating the release of my newest book – Making Your Home Meaningful. So many things got put on hold, but I wouldn’t change it for one minute. My faith has been made stronger, or family has grown closer, and I am resting in God’s peace knowing that he will never leave my side.
I can’t wait to catch you up on all the things we have been up to this summer!
Stay Tuned ~
Bre…
I was so very sorry to learn of the loss of your Dad. I am glad you are beginning to feel a bit like you can return to usual activities, but take whatever time YOU need. Your family is GOLD. Everything else is silver.
Bre ~ my heart is sad with you, it is so hard losing some so close to you. I know that journey only too well. I am looking forward to getting your new book!
Sincerest condolences on the passing of your dad. Prayers going up for your family.
What a gift to spend time with your dad. I love this quote I found after my own loss…”Grief never ends…but it changes. It’s a passage, not a place to stay. Grief is not a sign of weakness, nor a lack of faith…It is the price of love.”
Oh friend, I am so sorry! I remember you talking about your Dad over the years. Sending you lots of love and prayers.
I knew there had to be something going on in your life, so sorry for your loss. Our parents are so very important , take your time and know your in my prayers.
I’m so very sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. Pancreatic cancer is a brutal disease and so very often is discovered too late. Don’t be afraid to continue to grieve your loss-he was your dad and worth your tears and sorrow. You will heal in time. Keep those sweet memories in your heart forever.
So sorry to hear about your father. We lost my dad to that horrible cancer 20 years ago. We had 8 days with him after his diagnosis. The hole in my heart is as fresh as the day our Lord called him home. You and your family will be in my prayers. I volunteer with an organization called PANCAN to advocate for an end to this disease. They are a wonderful community and helped me through that difficult time.
I have your new book and it is wonderful! You and your family have been in my thoughts & prayers.
hey girl- I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad. I am praying for you and your family.
Bre, I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my mother this year to a brain tumor. In a matter of a week from the diagnosis, she was gone. We had so little time to prepare or say goodbye. I’m happy that you were fortunate enough to spend those final weeks with your father and prepare for the difficult road that was to come. The sudden loss of my mother has really made me appreciate every day and minute that I get to spend with my family, as I’m sure you feel as well. Take comfort in knowing that your father is a peace now.
My sincere condolences on the loss of your Dad…
I am so glad you are back.i am so very sorry for your loss. ❤️
Hello Bre, thank you for sharing your family’s journey through this emotional and challenging time of your lives. My heart is with you and I wish peace, comfort and love to all those who surround you. I missed your sweet, happy face and inspiration. I’m so glad you are here too!
so sorry for the loss of your father remember he will always be with you
Thank you for sharing your heart– so sorry for your loss. Blessings♥
I’m so sorry for your loss, but thankful for the hope we share in eternity! God is so faithful to be with us in out heartache and in out celebrations. I look forward to what you have to share in the coming weeks/months.
Oh Bre – my most heartfelt sympathies on the loss of your Dad. What a gift for him – and for you – to be able to spend precious time with him. Sending hugs, love and strength to you and your family.
Xoxo
Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
I am so for your loss. So glad you are taking care of yourself.
I am so very sorry for your loss. My dad also went home to be with Jesus after a fight with pancreatic cancer. I will keep you in my prayers.
I’m so sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. Sending caring thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Im so sorry to hear about your loss, losing a parent is rough. I lost my Dad last year after a 10 year battle with Alzheimer’s. Take the time you need and remember the goid times you had with him. Thanks so much for sharing your story. 💙
Oh Bre,
My sincere condolences. May your faith carry you through this difficult and sad time. I’ve missed you but love that you had the opportunity to be with and help with your Dad’s care.
I am so sorry for the loss of your father. How wonderful that you were able to jump on a plane and be with him as he made the journey home to the Lord. I hope that you find a little peace in the memories of him.
Welcome back, you were missed.
I am so so sorry for your loss! Sounds like you had many blessings in the process of caring for your Dad! I cannot wait to hear about all the wonderful things you have to share!
So very sorry for the loss of your Dad but such a comfort to know he is with Jesus and you will see him again. You are loved and appreciated.
My deepest condolences on the loss of your father.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. As a similar circumstance happened to my father who died six weeks after he was diagnosed with lung cancer, it is extremely hard on loved ones to wrap their heads around such a diagnosis and prognosis. May your father’s memory be eternal and God comfort all his loved ones.
Thank you Bre for the update. We have missed you! I’m glad you were able to spend dedicated time with your dad. You will never regret that decision. I pray your family finds peace and comfort in the loving memories you share. Take care! Looking forward to your inspiration!!
So very sorry for your loss hugs