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Why Writing Down Your Goals Matters (And How It’s Shaping My Year)

01/20/2026 By Bre 5 Comments

20 Jan

Hi Friends!

Every January, I take time to slow down and reflect on the year ahead. I sit down with a notebook and write out my goals — the big ones, the small ones, and the quiet intentions that shape my everyday life. Some years, that means changing a habit, learning to be more present, or finding new ways to show up with purpose. Writing things down has become a grounding rhythm for me, one that brings clarity and focus as a new year begins.

Before I share my Goals for this year, I wanted to share my “why” with you first.

The Power of Writing Things Down

It’s probably no surprise that I’m a list-maker. One sentence you’ll often hear me tell my teenagers is, “You’re 20% more likely to accomplish your to-do list if you write it down.” I’m not sure they fully believe me yet, but that’s okay. I’ll keep encouraging them anyway, because science has proven that statement to be true.

That habit of writing things down naturally leads me to lists. While journaling helps me process my thoughts and dreams, lists help me turn those reflections into action. They give structure to my days and help me focus on what matters most, especially when life feels full and distracting. Whether it’s a running to-do list or a simple set of priorities for the week, having things written out keeps me grounded and moving forward (even if progress comes one small step at a time). So while lists keep me focused from day-to-day, writing out goals keeps me focused for the year.

The Power of Writing Goals

I Don’t Always Share My Personal Goals

While I’m always excited to share what we’re planning for our home, my personal goals tend to stay a little more behind the scenes. Not because they matter less, but because this space has long been centered around design and creating a home you love. Over time, that focus has shaped what I share here, often keeping lifestyle reflections and personal growth tucked away in drafts, waiting for the “right” moment to be shared.

At the heart of it all, though, my desire has always been to encourage women. While that encouragement has often taken shape through home decor, reminding you that you can love your space no matter your budget or season of life, it’s always gone deeper than that for me. I’ve long felt called to share more lifestyle-driven posts that speak to personal growth, contentment, and encourage women to pursue their passions, chase their dreams, and find joy through every season life brings.

One of my Personal Goals for this year is to share more of these lifestyle-driven posts.

If you’ve been around here for a while, you may have come across a few of these posts already under my Dreams & Goals tab — posts like Celebrating Her Success Without Questioning Your Own, Finding Your Dream, and Writing Your Dreams Down. Those posts come straight from the heart, and they’re ones I’ve always felt especially connected to.

Set Goals for the Year Ahead

As this year continues to unfold, my hope is that you’ll give yourself the space to pause and reflect on what you want this season to look like. Your goals don’t have to be perfectly mapped out, and they don’t need to be shared with anyone else to matter. Start small. Write them down. Revisit them when you need clarity or encouragement. Even slow progress is still progress, and each step forward counts more than you may realize.

Before I share what I’m working toward this year, I’d love for you to take a moment and think about what you’re carrying into 2026. What’s something you’re praying for? Hoping to change? Wanting to grow in? Writing it down doesn’t make it final — it simply makes it intentional.

If you like this post, you may also like …

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Comments

  1. Carolyn Smith says

    01/22/2026 at 12:29 pm

    Thank you for sharing your personal feelings and goals. I feel honored that you have opened up to your friends online.
    I want peace, tranquility, clarity. I want to share unconditional love even when I find it challenging. I want to give as much love and comfort to anyone who comes into and passes through my life. I want to be of joyful service to anyone who needs it and to provide a safe and loving environment in my home and my life. That is my goal that drives all my other goals. LOVE

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    • Bre says

      01/25/2026 at 7:50 am

      I love hearing this Carolyn!! I feel the same way you do!! Happy New Year friend! Thanks for being here 🙂

      Reply
  2. Mae Edwards says

    01/21/2026 at 9:23 am

    Dearest Bre,
    I hope this finds you and your beautiful family all doing well, healthy and happy.
    I think of you so often and am deeply grateful for your lovely witness and example in the world.
    Let me know if you have time for some “treasure hunting” at our favorite barn this spring…..we can make that happen!
    Huge hugs,
    Mae

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    • Bre says

      01/25/2026 at 7:52 am

      HELLO sweet friend!!! You are so kind, and I hope you and your family are doing well as we kick off this new year! I would absolutely LOVE a treasure hunting trip this spring! Let’s make it a plan 🙂 Looking forward to seeing you soon! Hugs, Bre

      Reply

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    […] my priorities, and remind me of what I want to be mindful of as the year unfolds. If you read my previous post about the power of writing things down, this post is a continuation of that conversation. Today, I’m sharing my personal goals for 2026, […]

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